These 13 Things Will Kill Great Leadership

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screen-shot-2016-09-27-at-12-35-31-amMany people hold an oversimplified idea about what leadership means.

Some think it’s just a matter of guiding others to complete a task. Others confuse it with motivation.

In truth, leadership is a complex blend of competencies and capabilities.

It means communicating and empathizing, directing and modeling, teaching and mentoring—and, above all, trusting and serving.

With so many directions, it’s a practice that can stretch and bend to accommodate different strengths and skills, and even weaknesses.

There are a few qualities, though, that can kill even strong leadership.

Here are few of the deadliest—keep them far from your own practice of leadership if you want to advance and be successful.

1. Dishonesty. Honesty is one of the most important qualities in a leader. A dishonest leader cannot be trusted. A lie may take care of the present, but it has no future.

2. Revenge. Weak leaders seek revenge; strong leaders forgive; great leaders know the best revenge is to have enough self-worth not to seek it.

3. Arrogance. Arrogance is most often an unhealthy ego in need of repair. Great leaders know how to keep their ego in check, because ego is only about edging greatness out and doesn’t allow greatness in. Arrogance diminishes leadership.

4. Fear. Great leaders need to be too brave to be doubtful, too courageous to be fearful, and too determined to be defeated. Fear has no place in great leadership. Successful leaders experience fear, and then they fuel it into something bold and brave. The fears we don’t face, though, become our deadly limits.

5. Disrespect. Disrespect is the weapon of the weak, and it hurts people and organizations. The kind of people who make up great organizations don’t tolerate disrespect. Disrespecting others, or tolerating others who disrespect you, shows a lack of self-esteem.

6. Envy. Great leaders know who they are and take great pride in what they can accomplish. They enjoy watching others succeed and they make no room for envy. They know that if you’re always looking over your shoulder at what other people have, you can’t look forward to accomplishing great things.

7. Ingratitude. Great leaders value those around them and appreciate their hard work. They know they cannot attain success without others.

8. Favoritism. Leaders who practice favoritism in the workplace have no chance to build a trust or respect. Great leaders value all people and their gifts while understanding their differing needs, and they do their best to treat everyone well. This may sometimes look like favoritism on the surface, but those involved will always know the difference.

9. Laziness. Good leadership requires hard work. In fact, the leader should be willing to be the hardest worker on the team.

10. Poor communication. Communication is how leaders keep people and the organization healthy and on track as they fulfill their vision, goals, and objectives. The key to a culture of success is an environment where people can thrive without unnecessary dysfunction or confusion—and that means great communication. Great leaders know that clarity and communication reinforce human connection.

11. Conceit. A leader who always thinks they are the smartest in the room or they know best without even consulting others has fallen into conceit. Conceit almost always partners with arrogance, and great leaders know that it’s never compatible with compassion and understanding.

12. Rigidity. Some things are worth being rigid about—for example, you should never be flexible when it comes to your values and vision. But for most issues, leaders are called to be adaptable, because those who cannot change their mind usually cannot change much else.

13. Shortsightedness. The best leaders think long term, with big plans and even bigger dreams. They do what they can today to make the future—distant as well as near—successful.

Most of us in leadership struggle at some time with one or more of these issues. It’s best to keep a close watch, though, because even the smallest beginnings of these habits can be deadly.

Lead from within: Don’t allow negative qualities to kill your good intentions and your ability to lead.

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24 Responses to “These 13 Things Will Kill Great Leadership”

  1. sunil jogdeo

    27. Sep, 2016

    Lolly, nice one. Leadership has so many dimensions and is an issue related with awareness and awakening too. One must know the ample opportunities to test their own leadership desires and abilities / strengths. Thank you for this write up.

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  2. Roger Laidig

    27. Sep, 2016

    Thanks once again for sharing your insights on leadership. They always are spot on in my opinion. I appreciate being sharpened by them!

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  3. Jyoti Prakash Haldar

    27. Sep, 2016

    Dishonesty kills each & everything, thank you Lolly for this write up.

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  4. Greg Cheek

    27. Sep, 2016

    Another amazing article Lolly! I work with military and athletic leaders around the world and your wisdom is always part of my center content! Thanks as always
    Greg Cheek

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  5. CGHIVAAN

    27. Sep, 2016

    Sterling. Absolutely prerequisite optimum professional s you persistently make are simply superlative and I thank you!

    It’s about evolutionary time that that woebegone pol relativity principle: ‘spin’, faded away into history; and rebuilding begins towards a mettlesome reality based upon courageous personal integrity.

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  6. Garrett O'Brien

    30. Sep, 2016

    We can probably boil this down even further…

    Every leader aspires to be honored and we all aspire to be acknowledged – with other aspirations thrown in as well…

    Respect demanded always kills trust to one level or another, or entirely depending on the demand…

    Humility by anyone, especially a leader, will always gain respect — and this seeded respect will find their followers doing more than is required and/or requested…

    That respect will bring honor – and loyalty, something the respect demanded won’t….

    From there, add the 13 steps you provide here and they will havee the right direction to sound leadership…

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  7. Shafiul Azam

    01. Oct, 2016

    Excellent pointing.
    Every one should note these 13 points of being a disqualfied leader.
    Thank u for such article.

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  8. Muzamil oka

    02. Oct, 2016

    Hello thanks dear for the time you shared with us.

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  9. Douglas Mwonzora

    04. Oct, 2016

    This is just great Lolly. I love it

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  10. Janaya Narvaez

    13. Oct, 2016

    This article is fabulous because one trait after another made me cringe! If you have at least two of these leadership traits you likely have most of them.

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  11. Ingrid Awerbuch

    22. Oct, 2016

    Wow amazing spot on list. Makes for a powerful checklist for personal reflection and developing self awareness! Thank you.

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  12. Chris

    02. Dec, 2016

    Thank you for this! As Ingrid stated, great checklist for personal growth and accountability. Helps affirm strengths and encourages diligence in tending to weaknesses. I am instantly encouraged and exhorted.

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  13. David Mbina

    07. Jan, 2017

    Thanks alot miss lolly I love your post

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