As a coach, I spend a lot of time listening to leaders. Many of the things I hear probably wouldn’t be said to anyone else. But behind the scenes it is hard for leaders—it takes a lot of courage to lead, but most of us take it for granted.
Aristotle called courage the first virtue, because it makes all of the other virtues possible. And in my line of work as a coach I believe he is right; if you are courageous it really makes all that you do as a leader have merit.
The courageous leader takes the risks when they:
Go out on a limb. It takes a lot of courage to take initiative and step out, but when it comes to new ideas and new technology, or simply changing direction in an organization, courageous leaders know the future belongs to the risk takers. Weak leaders doubt; courageous leaders are ready to take the risk for action.
Give credit to others. Courageous leaders take a little more than their share of the blame and a little less than their share of the credit. It is amazing what can be accomplished if you do not care who gets the credit.
Have confidence in others. Trusting others with their abilities and their capabilities means empowering them to decide and think for themselves. The confidence of a leader creates self-confidence, which in turn magnifies strengths and skills.
Speak their mind. Courageous leaders speak up when no one else will. They know life is short, business is important, and there’s no time to leave important words unsaid. When it comes to raising difficult issues and unpopular points, courageous leaders have a gift for speaking their mind without offending others.
Provide feedback. Courageous leaders are skillful and courageous communicators who know how to give feedback in a way that’s forthright, helpful, and positive.
Stand up for others. Some organizations have a look-out-for-yourself culture that results in placing blame and throwing others under the bus. Courageous leaders not only refuse to play but also stand by colleagues and employees when no one else will. They are fearless in their pursuit of fairness.
Create a trusting culture. Sound workplace ethics improve an organization’s impact by changing the way people speak to each other and work with each other. Courageous leaders create a fearless culture and encourage people to speak their mind. Empowered people work harder, deal better and are more willing to face and address important issues.
Courageous leaders are seldom acknowledged for their virtues; some of the best leaders are taken for granted. While we’re cultivating our own courage, let’s look around our business, organizations, institutions and workplaces to find courageous leaders and celebrate them for the risks they take every day on our behalf.
The truth is our world needs great leaders now more than ever. We need courageous leaders who will see into the future and set the agenda for others to get there.
You can develop the habit of courage by practicing it. Whenever you have a tendency to hesitate or back off from a challenge, force yourself to go forward with courage. Make it your goal to reach deep down within yourself and act with courage. Those who follow you will be glad you did!
LEAD FROM WITHIN: Courageous leaders make a choice to take action regardless of any fear. They know that courage changes lives—first our own, then others.
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The Leadership Gap: What Gets Between You and Your Greatness
After decades of coaching powerful executives around the world, Lolly Daskal has observed that leaders rise to their positions relying on a specific set of values and traits. But in time, every executive reaches a point when their performance suffers and failure persists. Very few understand why or how to prevent it.
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Of Lolly’s many awards and accolades, Lolly was designated a Top-50 Leadership and Management Expert by Inc. magazine. Huffington Post honored Lolly with the title of The Most Inspiring Woman in the World. Her writing has appeared in HBR, Inc.com, Fast Company (Ask The Expert), Huffington Post, and Psychology Today, and others. Her newest book, The Leadership Gap: What Gets Between You and Your Greatness has become a national bestseller.
29. Sep, 2015
Thanks for another great post. I agree with you entirely on this as in others. I am in with you on all the points because I am a living witness. In leadership at different levels in the organization where I worked for 35 years, I was identified for the courage in doing in the right thing, identifying with workers, walking the talk, etc.
The board of management at the top level of that organization did acknowledge the leadership but was not comfortable with me largely because at every location and on every assignment I tried to “work as if I was not working” during working hours. One member of the board jocularly remarked on an occasion that “it is amazing how even drivers and security staff chatted freely” with me.
I have always believed that it is best and indeed the only way to success, to Lead from within. Thanks very much indeed Lolly.
03. Oct, 2015
Great post Lolly..I agree fully..howrver how many leaders do stand for their colleagues. ..
05. Oct, 2015
Insightful, Inspiring, impressive. Filled with wisdom that leads to transformation.
12. Nov, 2015
The word courage comes from the Latin “cor,” which means “heart.” When we lead with courage we lead from the heart, that is to say, with inner strength. In that light, when we show courage, almost inevitably, we expose ourselves, our innermost feelings and our hearts. Great post, Lolly!
27. Dec, 2015
Great post as usual Lolly !!
It is hard to choose the best point, but i think that “cooperate to create a trustful environment” and “provide feedback and ask for feedback” are probably what I like more.
Please do not stop to inspire us !!
04. Feb, 2016
thanks for all the motivational quotes & encouragement words..
26. Jun, 2016
This post was really refreshing and a wonderful reminder.
Having confidence in others point really resonated with me. I’m sure as any business or organization expands, more and more responsibility is given to others and that can be hard for many because it puts you in a vulnerable position. This is heightened if its extremely important.
I’ve been micro-managed & I’ve been left alone to work. I can tell great leaders know a balance. They key might be having confidence in yourself to trust that you surrounded yourself with bright and trust worthy people to do the job. But also be open to be approached if any situation comes up.