That which we fear grows in proportion to our preoccupation with it. The more we fear a thing, the bigger it becomes which in turn increases our fear.
We can move forward and through anything. All situations can be met. All experiences can be survived. Avoidance is no longer our technique for survival.
As Eleanor Roosevelt said, You must do the thing you think you cannot do.
Lead From Within: There is nothing you cannot handle.
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Of Lolly’s many awards and accolades, Lolly was designated a Top-50 Leadership and Management Expert by Inc. magazine. Huffington Post honored Lolly with the title of The Most Inspiring Woman in the World. Her writing has appeared in HBR, Inc.com, Fast Company (Ask The Expert), Huffington Post, and Psychology Today, and others. Her newest book, The Leadership Gap: What Gets Between You and Your Greatness has become a national bestseller.
Tisha Berg
08. Mar, 2010
Thanks for that powerful reminder Lolly! There is a book by that same name (Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway) that is one of my absolute favorites. There is exhiliration in walking through the fear…to paraphrase all of our moms advice, “the fear won’t kill you, but pressing forward in spite of it will ABSOLUTELY make you stronger!”
Again, thanks for sharing…it’s always inspiring coming here! 🙂
Delilah
08. Mar, 2010
I actually had the pleasure of applying the act of feeling the fear and doing it anyway.
I was asked to host a webinar at the last minute today. Naturally, fear gripped me immediately, but I started taking the necessary steps to “do it anyway”. After the event was over, I felt a rush of positive emotions and thoughts.
Thank you so much for this post. It inspired me to work through my fear today and accomplish a goal.
Lolly Daskal
08. Mar, 2010
Delilah, You are a perfect example of what I am speaking about. F. E. A. R. is usually False Evidence Appearing Real. You felt fear and you did it anyway and you were fine. NO, you were more than fine. You felt positive afterward. SO PROUD OF YOU!
Amy
23. Apr, 2010
Delilah, You are a perfect example of what I am speaking about. F. E. A. R. is usually False Evidence Appearing Real. You felt fear and you did it anyway and you were fine. NO, you were more than fine. You felt positive afterward. SO PROUD OF YOU!
Divina
26. Apr, 2010
I’m about to start a new job next month a culinary teacher. Being shy and soft spoken, I never really succeeded in overcoming this fear. I always ran out of words and experienced mental blockage in front of a crowd. I have to remind myself about this. There’s no turning back now.